How to help your child cope with anxiety7 votes
We all get anxious, but it becomes a “disorder” when it prevents a person from normal functioning. Anxiety and panic are very real, whether triggered by life in general or certain things such as phobias. Take it serious–it’s not something an extremely anxious child can “get over”. Willpower alone does not work.
Anxiety disorders are also one of the most common psychiatric conditions in children and adolescents, but often go undetected and untreated. Early, … Continue reading
Gun Control versus Mental Health: the Debate from a Parent’s Perspective5 votes
Shortly after the tragic massacre of children in Connecticut, I wrote the following Letter to the Editor to the Oregonian, Portland’s main newspaper:
“Tragic shootings always raise the question, “Why?”, and the response often jumps to guns. Yet guns are tangential to the problem. Those of us with a mentally ill person in our families can answer “why.” We’ve witnessed the behaviors leading to a mental health crisis. … Continue reading
Is my teen ‘normal’ crazy or seriously troubled?20 votes
A high percentage of teenagers go through a rebellious or irrational phase that is quite normal for their age and brain development. The difference between normal teen craziness and abnormal behavior is when the teenager falls behind his or her peers in multiple key areas. At a bare minimum, a normal teen should be able to do the following:
- Attend school and do most school work if they want to;
- Have and keep a friend or friends their own age who also attend school;
- Have a maturity … Continue reading
“You’re under arrest!”: Crime and Troubled Teens9 votes
You’ve tried everything. Now you watch helplessly as your troubled teenager starts down a path leading to jail, and you wait for that call from the police. There’s been a crime. It finally happened like you thought it would. But this bad news can be good news. This may be the point when things start to turn around.
“Experts estimate that from 40 percent to 70 percent of youth in the juvenile … Continue reading
Why teens run, and what you can do about it14 votes
It’s an emotional shock when your teen runs away the first time. Your feelings are complex: anger at his or her rebelliousness; fear for his or her safety; shame that you may be called a “bad” parent or that your behavior caused your child to run. Runaway teens also have complex reasons for running, and they may or may not be the parents’ fault.
Why they run
Basic teenage … Continue reading