Call 911 – Make a crisis plan for your troubled child

Call 911 – Make a crisis plan for your troubled child2 votes

Don’t let your family become emotionally battered when your troubled child or teen goes through one crisis after another.  It’s the last thing your family needs—more stress and exhaustion!  Since your main job as a parent or caregiver is to reduce stress, you must manage the inevitable emergencies in a way that quickly settles down your family, as well as get help for your child.  Are you prepared to head off a crisis when you see one coming?  Does your family have … Continue reading

The Troubled Teen Industry – A warning about boarding schools and outdoor camps

The Troubled Teen Industry – A warning about boarding schools and outdoor camps2 votes

There is a troubled teen industry out there—boarding schools, outdoor programs, and “boot camps” that are not licensed, not certified, and not experienced with youth with disorders.  Maybe you’ve seen the ads that promise to improve your teen’s behavior in the back of some magazines.  They promise that their program will “fix” your child.  They promise that your teen will learn important lessons about respect and about following your rules.  There are quotes from satisfied parents about how the program saved their teen’s life, but you can’t contact them.  The ads claim that staff are … Continue reading

How to work with police once you’ve called 911.

How to work with police once you’ve called 911.1 votes

 

Q: When is it time to call 911?  I’ve been told many times that I should call the police or mental health hotline when there’s a crisis, but how do I know when it’s a real crisis?

A:  If your child is doing something dangerous to him or herself, or others (including a pet), or property, and if you can’t manage it or stop it, call for help.  “Dangerous” means threatening, harmful, or abusive.  Emergency 911 dispatchers, police, and mental health crisis workers all encourage anyone to call, anytime.  You … Continue reading

What to do when you’re blamed for your child’s behavior

What to do when you’re blamed for your child’s behavior1 votes

  

I have yet to meet one family with a troubled child that has not felt blamed or judged by close people in their lives:  best friends, family members, a religious community, co-workers, even medical and mental health providers.  Nothing could be more wrong or more hurtful to the family’s well being.  Blame adds emotional burdens on top of what they already face, and can undermine an already shaky hope and faith. 

 

Parents like us are aware that many people are not comfortable around a child with bizarre or extreme behaviors, like our child.  … Continue reading

Your troubled child’s recovery and how you help them achieve it

Your troubled child’s recovery and how you help them achieve itPlease rate this post

What recovery looks like – A person with a mental or emotional disorder who is in “recovery” can look and act like anyone else.  They have:

  • stable relationships
  • a steady job or in school
  • a place to live
  • a proper diet
  • cleanliness
  • regular mental health check-ins.

Recovery is maintained when your child can pay attention to themselves and notice if their symptoms are starting up, and then take action to stop the symptoms.  You teach them what to look for, and how to do a personal check-in.  It’s just as if they are monitoring any other … Continue reading